Q & A

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Q: How should I present my donation? 
A: Let's take care of it right away so that we can get right to the good part!


-If we're meeting behind closed doors... please place your donation in the bathroom in an unsealed, unmarked envelope near the start of our date. This will also give you the chance to freshen up or pop one of my breath mints :). 

-If we have a fun public date planned...  And it's the first time we've met, present your gift in a card/envelope inside a gift bag or book (or other innocuous item.. feel free to get creative!). You can also take care of payment ahead of time electronically.  


Q: What will you be wearing when we meet?

A: It depends where we're meeting! My many "past lives" allow me to blend in nearly anywhere you have in mind. If you're coming to me, my default is a cocktail dress and heels.


For outcalls to hotels and private residences, discretion is always my main priority and I aim to blend in. Depending on the season, time, and city, I will arrive in modest clothing that suits the occasion-- typically business-casual or casual attire.

Q: Do you take special outfit requests?

A: I want this to be your fantasy date! If I have it in my closet, absolutely!  There are, however, appropriate ways to do this. In general, I'd suggest keeping requests more general. For example, letting me know there's a specific color you like, or specifying a category of attire like: casual, cocktail dress, thigh-highs/garter, Lululemon, etc. 


Be sure if we're meeting on a tour that you tell me before I travel so I can make sure it's packed!  


Q: What should I bring to our date? 

A: Unless you have special requests, you just need to bring yourself. If we're spending more than an hour together, drinks to start the evening can be a good idea. 


Q:  Can I bring a gift? 

Gifts are always fun! Pop over to my wishlist for ideas.

Q: What do you like to drink/eat?
Drink: I prefer wine! I like big, bold reds and crisp, bright white wines.. and bubbles are always fun! When the occasion calls for it... I opt for top-shelf tequila. 


Food:  I would strongly prefer that you not bring sweets to our dates (even "healthy" ones!).  Between my annoyingly Type-A devotion to a healthy lifestyle and a couple serious food allergies, I will decline to indulge in sweets and would hate for your lovely gesture to go to waste.  If you'd like to bring snacks... fresh fruit, nuts, or charcuterie will be devoured!


Q: Are there any types of restaurant you can't go to? 
Unfortunately, Chinese and Japanese (sushi is great, though!) are difficult for me. Everything else is fair game! I love New American, Italian, Spanish/Tapas,  Meditteranean, Thai... and anything unique or different. 


Q: What's your cancellation policy?

A: I require 24 hours of advance notice.  

Dates canceled with less than 24 hour incur a $200 cancellation fee, less than 12 hours incurs 50% of the total donation.


Q: What forms of payments do you take? Do you take electronic payments? 

A: I accept cash, prepaid gift cards, and electronic payments. Please give me advance notice if you plan to present a gift card and include a receipt. I am open to discussing electronic payments. 

Q: Where is your incall located? 

A: I host from upscale, centrally-located hotels or private apartments. 


Q: But....where EXACTLY are you located?
A: I get it... I like planning my commute, too. However, for both of our privacy and discretion, I disclose only my neighborhood in advance, and my cross-streets the day of our date. I  do not disclose my exact address until shortly before our date.


Q: Do you have any friends you could introduce me to? 
A: Yes! Please contact me to discuss :) 

Q: Are your photos real..? Recent? How can I be sure? Can you send me more? Do you blur your face because you have a giant face tattoo?
A: Very! My most recent photos were taken in March 2020. I only allow  minimal retouching of my pictures to ensure that what you see is what you get.  
 I will not send additional photos under any circumstances.  


A: Do you have an age minimum or maximum? 

While I do not have an age maximum. I do not see anyone younger than me (26).  Moreover, I take extra scrutiny when screening potential dates who are under 30.  While I've met wonderful men under 30, I have found that younger men are often seeking a purely physical transaction. While, there's nothing wrong with that, those aren't the experiences I enjoy most and I am intentionally very selective about who I will see.

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A: Are you newbie friendly?

Absolutely. My suggestion to any less experienced client is to do a bit of research before reaching out. Friendly reminder that ignorance will not be accepted as an excuse for engaging in disrespectful or inappropriate behavior.  




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